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Give a Smile and Move On

In a world full of different ideas and policies we want to create our own ‘world’ as a membrane from the outside world because we often approach situations with our positive or negative ideals. The most beautiful approach is to put things in a positive light, even if it happens spontaneously, and the situation will take on its own ‘special’ charm. Many people will not understand our personal ‘world’ and will inadvertantly affect us in some way, and, although not infrequently, may not realise this until we are in a troubled situation. We must admit that we are vulnerable and sometimes make mistakes. There is no shame in this.

After all, we are all vulnerable, and people who never talk about their vulnerabilities and mistakes are giving in to fear, and will become that which makes them most vulnerable. Also, people often begin seeking and exploiting the fears and weaknesses in others. Pointing out that the error may be the environment we are in is not difficult, but if we don’t listen to ourselves, then what have we done differently?

Some people will find that it is not enough to just know that we can error, they’ll want to publish this in a public place to discredit us. If we cannot find this consciously or unconsciously produced error to correct it, they will attempt to convince us that it is there, and in doing so will try to persuade other people around us of the same. By allowing other people to control our ‘world’ through manipulation, we gave them our strength, and they can use it against us. After realising this, all we should do is smile, say, “Thank you”, and continue on. Contact1

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Casper Bar

The Casper Bar 11:38pm. Roy was busy talking with Jennifer, a pretty blonde student of Architecture. Her girlfriend, Sun was more interested in Robert, no less than in his business. She was a true Social Media freak. That’s what Robert … Continue reading

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Introducing Robert

He’s very nice and handsome, but his soul is definitely not. His mind is dirty and wet like your skin after one hour of aerobics, and I mean like that 80’s aerobics. Try to detoxify him and you’ll get very sick. His heart is made for adrenalin, for his baby Mazda 6. That’s number one, after that comes additional accessories – women. Does he remember the first one? Probably he does, everybody does. He is so well trained by now that he even thought to open a website dedicated to offering advice for men in general, using a false identity, is understood. He would help battles to be won and he would be a leader, a bit more adrenalin won’t hurt. Light is green, move on. Next stop the Casper bar, hidden in a passage near Zeil, old town Frankfurt. Friday smells in the air. The night is still fresh. His baby is safe in the garage. The phone rings, Roy’s picture is on a display, he’s already there “In a minute.” Robert has its own rules. He walks in like he has all the time in the world. What’s better than stretching his legs in a promenade full of people female in gender? The age of girls he sees out lately is decreasing and he doesn’t like that. He thinks that they’re taking space for something more mature. “Something…” Hmmm, he has to change that word. The Bar slowly filled; Roy was drinking a spritzer and smoking those black cigarettes Robert hated. “We won’t stay young forever.” Roy flashed to him. “But we can make it last longer.” “I’m having the same.” The waitress had already poured a drink.

The Casper bar is top shelf for the last few years. “We could change this weekend and go to a disco!?” That would be too noisy for Robert. “I would go to a disco if I had to.” He never had a need to chase women. Even when he did it looked like he didn’t care. Patience is his virtue. It took a lot of patience for Robert and Roy to develop their company for being the most well known internet security brand in Germany. They have known each other since college, of which Robert didn’t finish. The death of his father happened in a very important moment, and it shook him up badly. That’s when Roy had an idea with their program they been developing during their studies. It took years to finish it, but all that patience and hard work paid off. So Robert didn’t need a diploma to find a job, together with Roy they opened a company where he put all of his energy into. Independent and free, with all that charm, Robert traveled a big part of the Mediterranean, changing his partners like the tires on his baby. He always thought that his girls wanted the same. Some of them did, but some tried to hook him, they always lost him in the end. He likes what he has, no need to change it.

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